31 and still watching teen dramas…
Okay.
Hear me out.
But is turning 31 just a little bit scarier than turning 30? It really feels as though this thing called ‘life’—and the journey we take along it—becomes increasingly daunting and uncertain the older we get. Maybe it’s because I still don’t quite feel like a fully-fledged adult.
A friend recently sent me photos of their house renovations, and I thought, isn’t that something only adults do? Not young people like us... Are we really at that stage now, where we are renovating properties (if we’re lucky enough to be on the property ladder), starting families, and navigating so many new responsibilities? Meanwhile, I’ve been spending every Wednesday completely obsessed with The Summer I Turned Pretty, following the complicated love triangle between two brothers and one girl. - In case you haven’t watched it yet, I can thoroughly recommend giving it a try!
Sometimes, I need to be gently reminded that over the past year I’ve successfully completed several extra training courses, transitioned out of traditional employment, and have now established myself to teach full time. There are still some aspects of teaching that remain challenging – such as dealing with self-comparison and the ongoing effort to encourage and promote events effectively. At times, the wellness industry can feel overwhelmingly noisy, as if there are too many activities and opportunities happening all at once. I find myself questioning my path – should I be pursuing that direction? Should I be looking into hosting retreats? Is that truly something I want to offer? There are so many factors and possibilities to consider, which can feel both exciting and a little daunting.
So perhaps turning 31 isn’t something to fear, but rather a gentle nudge to keep moving forward—steadily, curiously, and with a bit more grace for myself. Over the next year, I’ll continue to work hard, learn through experience, and figure things out one step at a time. And who knows—maybe some new offerings, ideas, or directions will naturally unfold along the way. I don’t have all the answers yet, but maybe that’s okay. Maybe that’s exactly where I’m meant to be.
